The last time I interacted with someone into HP & 4B?
1) They transgressed my physical boundaries casually without asking consent, a clear double standard
2) They foisted all of their lifetime resentments toward their dad, husband, & men onto me vis a vis projective identification
3) They displayed contempt toward me because of my gender, one I am equivocal on in the first place. Way to not see me at all.
4) They contemptuously said "I dont need a man" when they purportedly wanted to be friends. They pulled the gendered reductionism canard. Because they are stuck rooted in a binary gendered framework.
Fuck that shit.
Do better if you're going to wave the banner of feminism.
I really loathe the term 'virtue signalling' but if someone isnt practicing their values on an individual, interpersonal basis, that's the definition of VS.